I was working with a patient today on his personal transition with a career move when we did an exercise that I thought could also benefit you!
Keep in mind, we have been working together for over a year on his physical health, relationships and career enhancement business coaching. So, today’s visit may seem a bit like hoping into the middle of a TV series without seeing the beginning episodes. But read on and do the exercise yourself!
Today’s visit started with some clarity cards that I use with some patients to help set the stage (* see details below). We then began with the questions…
First thing we needed to do was identify his ultimate dream with as much detail as possible. Second thing we did was establish where he was today in his career (and other aspects of his life too!). Then we created a blueprint with room for variance between where he is today and what in his opinion and experience he needs to do in order to reach his ultimate goal! This is where I come in. I get to objectively see if “his opinion and expereince” is truth or his self created truth.
I also get to listen for fear based reasoning/planning, heart speak and/or egotistical rational.
In addition, I get to help keep the vision clear, keeping him on track. We then began to work backward. After establishing time frames and a framework to work within, we could get creative and crafty about manifesting these goals more quickly and directly.
Write down your ultimate goal/vision/dream. About anything. Work, family, love, location, personal purpose, exercise goals, any goals! Any dreams. Establish a desired “by when” and then work backward with mini-goals and time frames to make your goal realistic and attainable! Create happiness and success for yourself!
* Clarity Cards and Outcome: I sometimes use clarity cards in my practice to see the universal energies around our higher selves and what the ego desires to create (that may or may not be in our best interest). Basically all that mumbo jumbo means… this particular patient has a career opportunity in San Diego. He recently left San Diego to pursue a career opportunity in Puerto Rico. The opportunity taught him what he needed to learn and now he is ready for the next step toward his ultimate dream/goal. His question to me was, “should I pursue this opportunity in San Diego?”
First thing I did prior to our visit was draw cards asking “his higher self (energy) and the universe” what was in the highest and best interest of his “on-purpose” self. We are all roaming this Earth with a purpose searching to constantly be fulfilling that purpose. (Hopefully I haven’t lost you yet- stick with me!). So, I needed to see if the energy of the cards thought his m0ve to SD would be in alignment with his purpose as well as the best career decision for him. This way we take my opinion and his opinion out of the equation.
My series of questions: Is it in the highest and best interest of XX higher self to return to SD for this presenting business opportunity as the next step toward his ultimate goals, dreams and business purpose? Card drawn was “Contemplation Time”. That let me to a series of questions (see above). I then asked, “if it is in the highest and best interest of XX higher self to return to SD, what are the present energies around the first 6months? One year +/- 3 months? Two+ years? The overall energy of his return to SD?”
Results: Contemplation time- he needed to spend some time alone in nature with a pad and pen and be very clear with his HEART what his ultimate goals and desire are. We have done work previously on deciphering the difference between what the ego, fear and the heart desire. All best decisions come form the heart- a place of love, faith and courage. Once he was able to get clear about his ultimate dream and what SD had to offer…we could then see if the following cards applied.
What the universe saw for his time in SD in 6 months- Synchronicity– “Your prayers and questions are being answered by synchronistic events. Notice them in order to increase their flow.” Now is the time to use “change meetings” as profitable collisions!
One year- Divine Magic-“Extra magic surrounds your situation right now, expect miracles.”- You have the ability to create whatever you’re heart desires. Be clear and it will come.
Two+ years- Alchemy– “You have Midias touch right now. Everything you touch turns to gold.”
SD energy for you time here if you return- Healing Hearts– Your work has helped others heal and well as yourself. That lesson and chapter in your life has been completed.