One quick tool to cut back on all the internal chatter of “should I?”, “it doesn’t feel right, but I feel like I should”, “I can’t decide”.
Is one simple rule.
If the answer is not an 100% YES, then the answer is NO.
Be confident and comfortable with your no. No is an answer for a moment in time. Sometimes allowing yourself to say no, creates room for a more definitive yes. A no can easily become a yes as time continues, people evolve and our environment (what we surround ourselves with) changes.
Try it out for 1 week. See how it makes you feel. Today is a great day for new beginings.
Oh and P.S.- you don’t need an explanation, a reason or an excuse as to why your answer is no. The answer will come or the yes will rise.